How to Meet Single Football Players

Do you want to meet single football players? Not sure how to date a professional football player? It’s understandable. Single football players, especially ones with money, are cautious about who they date. There are too many stories of women dating football players just for the money. However, if you can get their attention and make an impression, it’s entirely possible to find single football players.

10 best ways to meet single football players

Single Football Players
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1. Talk to single NFL football players via social media

Apparently athletes started dating women they met through Twitter a few years ago. A.J. McCarron, a backup quarterback with the Bengals, actually met his current wife through Twitter. More famous players like the ones in NFL Network’s Top 100 have endless mentions and will be hard to reach, but dating football players at the back end of the roster will have plenty of perks, too.

Messaging single NFL football players through Facebook could also work, but it’s less likely. Messages from non-friends get filtered into “message requests,” which most people do not see. Twitter, on the other hand, generally send a notification directly to a user’s phone when they are mentioned, so it’s a more effective way to get the attention of single football players.

2. Attend an event and catch a player’s eye

If you’re not sure how to meet football players after a game, or can’t seem to get their attention from the crowd, try attending smaller events where it’s easier to stand out in the crowd.

Media Day the week of the Super Bowl is always a circus, and the NFL sells cheap tickets. Asking a player on a date wouldn’t be out of place considering the atmosphere. Training camp also has smaller crowds, and even if single football players might be too tired for dating right then, you can make a connection that develops later on. Apparently players could be found all over Hawaii during the Pro Bowl, too. It’s in Orlando this year, but with all the sights to see a player shouldn’t be too hard to find.

3. Sign up for a specialized dating site

Sure, eHarmony, Plenty of Fish, and Match might have a few athletes buried among their singles, but they’ll be hard to find. It’ll be easier to find single football players on a site that specializes in matching them.

Unfortunately, there’s no site specifically intended as a dating site for single NFL players, but is a site specifically for athletes, including single football players. It’ll be easier to find them there than most other sites.

4. Use a dating app like Tinder

Apparently it is possible to meet single football players on Tinder. Several players from the New York Jets have been found on the app, and there may be more hiding their careers. If you keep swiping, you just might find some single NFL football players in your area.

There’s also another app called SportsBuddy you can check out. While it was designed to help people meet others who want to play, an executive with the company openly admitted that people would probably use the app to find single athletes in their area as well.

5. Sign up for a matchmaking service also has a few articles explaining how to date a professional football player. In one piece, they mention that signing up for a traditional matchmaking service can help someone meet single football players. Part of the process involves detailing what you are looking for in a relationship, and it is possible to state that you like dating single football players.

One example of such a service is Kelleher International, which specializes in elite clientele. This includes single football players, making a service like theirs a great way to find an athlete.

6. Join dating sites and services that target rich clients

Some single football players can also be found on dating sites built for millionaires like Millionaire Match, or matchmaking services like Millionaire’s Club. These might be less effective than an athlete focused site, but would still be more helpful when dating football players than a typical site.

7. Find a sugar daddy site

The final category of dating sites on this list, sugar daddy sites like are the least likely way to find single football players, or at least the least likely way to find a real relationship with one. Dating football players from a site like this is more likely to be a relationship built on financial gain or physical desires. That’s not necessarily bad if that’s all you want, but the ride won’t last as long as some other options.

8. Become a cheerleader

While not everyone has the option of becoming a cheerleader, it’s definitely a great way to get noticed. Players only play offense or defense (sometimes with special teams mixed in), so single football players often have time to check out their surroundings while waiting to get back on the field. Cheerleaders regularly end up dating football players, with some even getting hugs from their boyfriends during the game.

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9. Get a job working for the team

For those who aren’t qualified to be a cheerleader, getting a job in the team’s front office or with the PR team can be the next best thing. Jobs in Community Relations, Football Operations, Administration, or the media department will put you in contact with players on a regular basis. It creates a natural interaction with single football players that goes beyond being a screaming groupie in the crowd, and some jobs will have little or no experience requirements.

Be sure to avoid “hospitality” jobs. These jobs usually involve working the ticket booth, manning a concessions stand, or serving food and drinks to fans and people watching the game from up in the luxury boxes. Players most definitely won’t see you up there.

10. Get a meeting through Thuzio

Thuzio is a service set up by former player Tiki Barber. It’s intended for businesses looking to meet celebrities and arrange advertising deals or other arrangements, but if you have the cash to spare for the expensive fee it’ll be just like dating football players. You’ll have their attention for 90 minutes, and can try to turn that meeting into a real relationship.

Those that don’t have the cash can work with their employer to set up a meeting and try to get noticed there like a scene from a romantic comedy. It’s also a good alternative for anyone who would love to meet single football players naturally through work, but cannot change careers just to try and meet one.

Tips on dating football players

Once you’ve found a single football player you want to date, you need to keep them close and try not to scare them away. They live in a world where everyone wants a cut of their money, from family and old friends to people they’ve never heard of. has a good list of detailed tips to keep in mind when dating or trying to meet a pro football player. Here are some basic tips:

  • Dress all in white when trying to get a single football player’s attention.
  • Act natural rather than trying to force a relationship.
  • Carry yourself with confidence.
  • Once you’re dating a football player, don’t ask for anything from them- you’ll look like you’re just after money or fame.
  • Nobody like taking work home- minimize football talk unless they bring it up.
  • Understand and accept that pro athletes work beyond full time during the season and go on the road often- they won’t always be there for you.
  • Be there for them whenever possible, especially after a loss or retirement.

Obviously no guide to meeting and dating someone will ever be complete. Each person, each player, and each relationship is different. Hopefully these tips can help you find the football player of your dreams and enjoy many happy dates, or even an entire lifetime, with that special player.

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